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How To Focus…Or Not

Richard CummingsEssays, My A-Musings 1 Comment

This morning I lost focus which happens with regularity. Fortunately, I can control it because I am aware of it.  If you are aware of losing focus, does that by definition make you focused? My intention was to create a page on my how to video site about how to copy a DVD to a DVD because a lot of …

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Sex and The Three Different Types of Women

Richard CummingsEssays, Relationships 9 Comments

I recently had a Skype chat with my friend Lynne about sex and the 3 categories of women. Lynne is French, resides in London, and she runs a Sex in the City type of blog about being single in the city of London.   She mentioned to me that she had not had sex in awhile.  She speculated that, at this point in …

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Waking Up

Richard CummingsEssays, Life, My A-Musings 2 Comments

There are many different ways to wake up.  You can’t control them; they just are. I liked the way I woke today.  Normally, I wouldn’t have liked it because I woke up too early.  When you wake up too early, it often means that you did not get enough sleep.  Who wants to start a new day without enough sleep …

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Why Tuesday Sucks

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If you’re in a bad mood today, let me tell you why. It’s Tuesday. Tuesday has no raison d’être. If your unfamiliar with that term, look it up. It’s Tuesday after all and you feel like shit…might as well learn something.

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Hillary’s Hypocrisy

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Did Hillary Clinton fail in her Presidential bids because people found her hypocritical? I wrote this piece back in 2008 when she was running against Barack Obama for the Democratic nomination. We all know what happened in 2008 … and then again in 2016, when we witnessed the instructive election of Donald Trump. Some people find Hillary dislikable, others disingenuous, …

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My Condition

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The word for it  currently escapes me.  (I think that it will come to me within two paragraphs).  But I am semi-it. I haven’t even had two sips of coffee yet and I don’t know that the brain is turned on.  Although, when I was in bed, debating whether to arise, thoughts were rapid-fire but in a mellow feel good …

Contacting Paulo Coelho, Part II

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(click here to read part I of the story) David knew what that normal life entailed.  He had lived it the past 5 years.  At 28, he thought, if I go back now, that will be it.  I will probably never return.  And he was probably right. A traveler who returns home from his journeys always wants to travel again.  …

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Contacting Paulo Coelho…

Richard CummingsEssays, Life, Personal Development 2 Comments

It’s the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting.   Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist I am seated in South America writing.  Would I be seated here writing Contacting Paulo Coelho were it not for The Alchemist?  Probably, but not certainly.

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Beyond the iPad: The True Legacy of Steve Jobs

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legacy of Steve JobsFor many, the legacy of Steve Jobs may be the device you hold in your hand or the computer on which you are reading this right now. But the true legacy of Steve Jobs is not one of technology, but of life.

In the many accounts of the life of Steve Jobs recently written, we read articles such as how Steve Jobs changed the way we interact with music and how Steve Jobs Told Us What We Needed Before We Knew. Certainly, Steve Jobs will be remembered 100 years from now for the way he created the perfect marriage between art and technology.

Did John Edwards Mean What I think He Meant?

Richard CummingsEssays, Politics 1 Comment

When someone has no good reason to say something, they might be saying more than you think. As I got to thinking who would win the 2008 November elections (Barack, Hillary, McCain) today, I thought of the words John Edwards spoke to Wolf Blitzer while he was still in the race…”I am the most electable of the three of us …